Rebecca Livingston Bray

Rebecca “Becky” Livingston Bray of Richmond, Virginia passed away on Wednesday, February 18, 2026 surrounded by her loving children, following a long battle with breast cancer that she faced with characteristic strength and grace. She was a devoted mother, grandmother, daughter, sister, and friend whose warmth, generosity, humor, and unmistakable style touched everyone who knew her.

Becky is survived by her four children, who were the center of her world: Catherine Bray Welsh (Sean Welsh), Michael Bray (Andrea Bray), Molly Bray Mahannah (Christopher Mahannah), and Julie Bray Weintz (Isaac Weintz), as well as her grandchildren Ethan Bray, Kieran Bray Welsh, Grady Bray, and Keller Bray. Additionally, she is survived by her mother Joanne Livingston and her brothers Philip Livingston and Bruce Livinston (Linda Livingston), and a host of nieces and nephews and dear friends. She was pre-deceased by her father, Larry Livingston.

Becky was born in Havre de Grace, Maryland, and grew up in Gaithersburg, Maryland, where she formed lifelong friendships that she cherished throughout her life. She attended the University of Florida for her undergraduate degree and later earned her MBA from the Darden School of Business at the University of Virginia.

Bold, chic, and full of life, Becky never did anything halfway. A talented cook and enthusiastic host, Becky brought people together around her table with her favorite dishes, lively conversation, and genuine care. She delighted in travel, returning often to favorite places including St. John, Paris, Kauai, and the Grand Canyon. She loved bridge, cruises, plants, picnics, biking with friends, and mornings watching the Today Show — often sharing what she learned with family and friends.

After devoting many years to raising her children, Becky restarted her career as a commercial real estate appraiser, earning the respect of colleagues through her persistence, intelligence, and work ethic. She approached life with resilience, humor, and a spirited independence that inspired those around her. She was a fierce advocate for her children and family, always encouraging them to stand up for themselves and live fully.

Becky’s greatest joy was her family. She celebrated every milestone, made birthdays special, and created traditions that will live on in the hearts of those she loved. Her legacy is one of generosity, strength, laughter, and unwavering devotion.

A celebration of Becky’s life will be held in Richmond, Virginia, with details to be shared by the family.

In lieu of flowers, the family suggests acts of kindness and generosity in Becky’s memory, or donations to the UVA Comprehensive Cancer Center via this link: https://www.givecampus.com/campaigns/20222/donations/new